Here Are A Few Reasons Why
Most Fail To Get A Girlfriend Back In Their Arms...
And How To Make Sure You Avoid Every Single One Of
These Deadly Common Mistakes.
These Rules Are Even More
True... When You're Dealing With An
ATTRACTIVE Woman Who Gets A Lot Of
Attention From Guys... Find
out how to tell if you have a chance of Re kindling the
If a woman feels
ATTRACTION for a man, she'll do almost anything
to stay with him.
If she DOESN'T feel it, then the chances
are slim that she'll stay
Getting back your
girlfriend after a fight or breakup can be a daunting task.
you go for it you probably need to ask yourself
a few questions.
Most important, do
you want her back because you truly love her
for who she is or because you would be ashamed to be seen by your
friends without your 'trophy'?
Was your relationship a positive one,
where common ideals and goals were shared
or did the relationship consist mostly of fights and
If you believe you and your girlfriend
have something special and you know deep down that she is the love
of your life!
Then you owe
it to yourself and her to make an honest attempt at getting her
If this is the case don't sit and stew and let your
mind play through 'what if' or 'if
only I had done that' senarios this is just not
Last year I was dating a woman for
several months, in fact it was beyond dating
already, we were close to a committed relationship.
And we had pleasure and fun together, great sex and
Then all of a sudden she decided that it was not
"that", she left and went back to her former guy, a jerk who doesn't treat her
even remotely as well as I did.
At the beginning... she was chasing me,
not the other way round, and I instinctively did it right, played the
"hard to get" and let her run hot.
No wonder she was wild on me when we
finally hit off. But then I must have changed my
behaviour and started acting like a MOUSE.
But strangely enough ever since then
she keeps in contact with me, by emailing,
phoning & writing that she is missing me... saying she
wants to keep me as a friend
And, So On...
I lot of people, after
a breakup, tend to have trouble keeping themselves together,
especially when they depended on that person a
this is a symptom that your relationship was doomed in the first place...
You shouldn’t have to justify yourself by
being in a relationship! Instead it should
simply... And, about enrich your life.
Therefore, now is the moment to stop
behaving like a spoiled BRAT... and begin to
behave as a competent and developed young man, who
knows what he wants and possesses the ability to make difficult
If you had a crazy moment and dumped
her for a bad reason, and you now realize that, it is time to
apologize to her and do what you can to take back what you
Keep your composure, breath deeply, and go to
know... that you now have a clearer head, and you want to be forgiven and taken
You should also try and apologize for over reacting if
you have done so.
With any good fortune, that will
seal the rift and you will have won his heart
But, Then again...
There may be a
bit more work to do, if you want to get a girlfriend back, just from a simple apology... Deeper feelings and consideration
may have to be covered.
Take a step back!
If this is a common theme
with your partners, you may have to figure out whether or not you’re
holding yourself back.
If you find problems in your own conduct that you have
received words from people about and that trouble you, then deal with
You may have a lot of things to work
out for yourself first, if you have any hope of maintaining a
relationship with anyone in the future!
So start right away.
These are a few clues.
Do not ever
make a decision when you are overly emotional.
If you just focus on the heat of the moment, you may
make decisions that you might regret later on.
If you have to get a girlfriend
back, this is painfully evident... don’t try to conduct
a relationship through anger and control, and especially with a short
Thus, be level headed and slow in taking steps to get her back.
Give her real and truthful reasons for
why the relationship will work out this time,
and actually last.
No matter what it takes, get
rid of the spoiled BRAT... and show her a mature and competent
young man she can enjoy spending time with.
You may be going through
all sorts of emotions... anger, regret, fear
and longing. That's ok, it's normal.
though! all the back and forth only wears you out.
Make a decision to let her go or get her back...
Breakups have a way of taking your
world and turning it upside down... At
first the pain is unbearable, the
emotions overwhelming and it seems as if nothing can make things right.
Although men have an inherent ability
to hide their inner most emotions, it
becomes really hard for most men to function smoothly
after a brake up...