Wondering How To Get Your Ex Wife Back ?
It's Not Hard! In Fact, It Can Be Quite Easy... And, In Many Cases It's
Just About Stopping... To Do What Drove Your Ex Away In The
First Place.
But, the problem is... that
most people are doing it wrong. In fact, in
many cases you will be driving your ex even further from you and not
back to you!
If you are wondering how
to get your ex wife back now that you have broken up, than let me tell you... in most cases it is
doable! What You Need... Is A Long Term Strategy To Save Your Ex Relationship,
Or Get Your Ex Wife Back With Emotional
Control...
Do you find your relationships keep failing time and
time again?
The
truth is far from the fairytale we’ve grown up to know. The fact is, people who stay in love are the ones who work HARD at staying in love on a DAILY
BASIS.
That’s right... it’s not exactly
“easy” to stay in love.. at least not after the initial honeymoon period is over.
That’s Why A “Loss
Of Attraction” Occurs So Commonly In Relationships.
You know when your partner tells you, “I
just don’t love you anymore”, or “I’m just not feeling that spark” or “I’m not
attracted to you like I used to be.”
But you know what, the truth is, MOST people who
get together have a great chance to staying together and being in LOVE
together for a long time.
It’s just that they forget that
they need to work hard at staying in
love!
But you CAN get it
back... It takes some work and it takes some FOCUS, but it’s definitely possible!
One of the
techniques I talk about is Emotional Control.
This is a great example
of how your relationship can become HARDER to maintain
and what you need to do to “cure” those issues.
But, be warned... it’s
easy to read it and understand the concept, but it’s much more difficult
in practice...
Especially if
your ex wife or ex partner is unwilling to work on this with
you.
So if you know you have some
recurring problems with your partner, or
you’re having a hard time convincing your partner that
you’ve changed for the BETTER,
then you’ll want to try this technique.
Emotional Control is one of the many techniques
within The System.
It is... A long term strategy to get your ex wife
back.
It trains your partner to think a
certain way about you. It Reprograms the negative “patterns” developed
throughout the course of your relationship.
Here’s the thing.
Your
partner Only exists in your mind, and a Version of you exist
in your partner’s mind, but this is not the Real you, it’s their
version of
you.
Overtime You Each Develop A Set Of Personality
Trait conclusions called schemas for the other
person.
Negative Schemas are thinking your partner is or being
known as...
Lazy
Stupid
Pigheaded
Cruel
Hard
Selfish
Crazy
You can also
develop schemas about your partner’s motivation and intentions “She’s trying to control me” “It’s
all ego...
Trying to build herself up by tearing me
down... “She’s only nice to me because she wants to have
sex... to brake me down...” These schemas are developed by a
great deal of MIND-READING!
Think
of the pastimes and activities that were central to your
former
relationship.
Then, manipulate the circumstances
to lead to these activities. This manipulation
requires a good sense of timing and discretion.
If you find yourself with your ex
in a group of friends that can't quite decide what
to do for some fun, suggest an activity that held
special significance to the two of
you as a couple.
It could be Tennis, a beach BBQ, an afternoon making
clay sculptures, a trip to A fun park, a game of
Frisbee, you name it.
Chances are,
he'll share your enthusiasm for this suggestion.
And at that point, it's a no lose scenario for
you.
If the group agrees to do the activity, then you and your ex-boyfriend
is sure to have fun and be happily reminded of past
times.
I still love my ex wife and would do anything to get
her back.
I realized that getting my ex wife
back has nothing to do with my financial status.
But it has everything to do with my reactions
to the problems that are present with us and how I deal with
it.
So what happened?
I learned 2 things... The Do's and Don'ts of a
relationship.
THAT IS WHY OPEN
AND CLEAR COMMUNICATION IS A MUST!
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Has Your Wife
Dropped A Bombshell Saying That She Is Never Happy With
You, And Wants A Divorce From You?
The First Thing You Need To Do Is
Don’t Disturb Them! By Trying To
Convince Them. When You Try To Convince Them
It Just Irritates Them More And More!
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