The Essential Element To Bear In Mind Is That Your
Motives For Winning Back Your
Girlfriend Should Be Noble... Many Men Fall Prey
To A Sense Of Duty In
Holding A Relationship Together...
This becomes Bombastic, when we Lose the most important thing in our lives... the love of a special person. The heartache felt
by the loss of that special person can cause very real physical
pain.
It's hard to concentrate or focus. Daily chores
and routines may seem like a heavy burden and even places that were once
special must now be avoided like the
plague.
You think about
your loved one constantly and remember all the great times you had
together.
I bet you sit wondering where it all went wrong
and what you did that was so wrong or how you helped to create this
situation.
The constant
questioning of what you did can almost drive you insane.
It can even be difficult
to socialize, especially when a lot of your
friends may be mutual friends.
Do you remember the last
time you felt peace of mind?
Everything reminds you of your ex & you can't
stay focused on anything else for
long.
The Most Common Mistakes You
Must Stop Now, To Have Any Chance At Winning
Back Your Girlfriend, Lover, Husband or Partner...
Pius, By Doing a little homework...
you will put a leash on your partner's heart and Win them back, before
it's too late.
People who are in Deep Pain
from A Break up have a tendency to do the exact OPPOSITE of what you should do.
The first thing you need to do is
Stop acting in a way that your lover is biologically inclined
to Not feel attraction for you.
That means
being weak, passive and overly agreeable.
For biological and evolutionary reasons we
don't need to get in to now, women seek strong men who can protect
them.
And men don't respect women who let them
get away with everything which means you'll be habitually cheated
on.
I know, after a
break up it's hard to give off the appearance of being
strong. But it's absolutely vital.
And it's not as hard as you
think, if you'll just agree to making and modify the way you do things from
now on...
Now, start by analyzing why
did your girlfriend breakup with you in a first
place.
The most common variant is that you pushed her away by hurting her feelings or mistreating her.
Eventually she
said that she is tired of it and can't take it anymore. You have to face the consequences of your
actions.
Don't try to reason with her by promising that "This
will never happen again". It just doesn't work that way. People can't
change overnight... at least no one believes it to be
true.
Do not insist or beg her to give you a
second chance. It will only irritate the person
that you want to win back.
The real question is,
"What to say to get your girlfriend back?"
Start with the sincere apology. For
example, you can say something like, "I am really sorry for... I understand
why you wanted to break up and I respect your
decision".
Under no circumstances
start arguing with her or trying to explain and find an excuse for your
actions.
Do not try to pressure her into
forgiving you, by calling her every day and declaring your love. Give your ex
girlfriend about a week to calm down.
After some time had passed call
her and ask her to meet you to discuss
everything.
Make a
reservation at a very nice and Cozy Restaurant and
tell her that she looks stunning as soon as you see her.
Imply that
deep Down you still have feeling for one another and if she
would end this relationship now, both of you will be left miserable.
Flatter her by saying that you
were lucky to meet such an interesting and amazing person. She is
simply one of the kind and you wouldn't be able
to find another girl like her in a billion years.
Praise her, make her feel special
and wanted, tell her things that you love about her the most. Just
remember to be sincere.
Don't tell your girlfriend
what you think she would like to hear even if it is not
true.
She will immediately sense
it and all of your efforts will go to
waste.
As a final argument, say that there
is no doubt in your mind that if you would only work
together, you could save this relationship and create some more
beautiful and unforgettable memories.
It is also important to
appreciate all the good things that happen in your life. Start Every morning
by Counting the important things you still have with
you.
You can be grateful for the eyes
you still have to see, the parents that still care for your well
being and friends that are there for you.
Hold
your hand in your heart and say it out loud. By now you
should realize that
there are still a lot of worthwhile things in your life.
When your ex-girlfriend sees you again, she will
meet a positive person instead of an embittered
one.
Be a sociable person again and
accept any social invitations. It does not mean that you
should be eying every girls that come your
way, because it may be a way of winning back
your girlfriend.
It does mean that you can start flirting with that
cute girl introduced by your friends. Ask for her phone number and then
follow up with invitation for
dinner.
This is usually the time
when you start to do things the right way to winning back
your girlfriend, wife, partner or lover back!
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There Is
No Feeling On Earth Like The
One Where She Walks Out Of Your Life.
You Really Need To Take A Step
Back
Right Now. Yes It Is Possible To
Winning
Back Your Girlfriend,
But!
Are You Doing It For The Right
Reasons?
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